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1、Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus男人来自火星,女人来自金星,Talk about men and women,很少人能够真正随着爱情成长,但不容否认,确实有人能够做到。只有当男人和女人能够尊重和接受彼此的不同,爱情才有机会繁盛。,Very few people, indeed, are able to grow in love. Yet, it does happen. When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance
2、 to blossom.,Remembering Our Differences,1.女人对男人最常见的抱怨是,男人不肯倾听。The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men dont listen.2.男人对女人最常见的抱怨,是女人总是企图要改变他们。The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them.原因在于二者的价值观不同:mens
3、 and womens values are Inherently different,About Men,1.他们对“物体”和“事情”比较有兴趣,对人们与感觉比较没兴趣。 The men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings. 2.完成目标对男人很重要因为那是他证明能力与自我满足的方法 Achieving goals is very important to a man it is a way for him to provehis competence and thus feel
4、good about himself.why men resist so much being corrected or being told what to do. To offer a man advice is to presume that he doesnt know what to do or that he cant do it on his own.However, if he truly does need help, then it is a sign of wisdom to get it.,About Women,1.女人重视爱、沟通、美与关系。沟通对她们最重要。分享个
5、人感觉比完成目标和成功更重要。Women value love, communication, beauty, and relationships. Communication is of primary importance. To share their personal feelings is much more important than achieving goals and success.2.因为女人不认为证明能力是件多了不起的事,所以她们认为提供帮助并非唐突,请求帮助也不算能力不足。 proving ones competence is not as important to
6、 a Venusian, offering help is not offensive, and needing help is not a sign of weakness.3.尊敬别人的方法是耐心倾听,感同身受地了解对方的感觉A way of honoring others is to listen patiently with empathy, seeking truly to understand the others feelings.,WomenGive up giving adviceMenLearning to listen,Men go to their Caves and
7、Women TalkMEN: After the men learned how to listen they made a most amazing discovery.They began to realize that listening to a woman talk about problems could actually help them come out of their irritation in the same way as watching the news on TV or reading a newspaper.Women:When the men were go
8、ing into their caves, the men also did not take it personally. they finally understood that a men going into his cave was not a sign that he didnt love her as much.,When do men and women feel themselves to love and to be loved?,当男人觉得被需要时,他会被激发,充满动力当女人觉得受珍爱时,她会被鼓舞,充满动力。Men:Not to be needed is a slow
9、death for a man.It is difficult to be motivated when he is not needed.Women:She needs to feel she is not alone. She needs to feel loved and cherished.,Thank you !,It is never too late to increase the love in your life. If you want to have more fulfilling relationships with the opposite sex, this tem
10、plate is for you. May you always grow in wisdom and in love. I wish in the future few people will get divorced and more people will get married . Whats more, the children of these married people will obtain a better life.,About love letter,Why we need to write love letter?Love letterI. Write a Love
11、Letter expressing your feelings of anger, sadness, fear, regret, and love.2. Write a Response letter expressing what you want to hear from your partner.3. Share your Love Letter and Response Letter with your partner.,一、写一封表达你的气愤、伤心、害怕、后悔和爱的感觉的情书。二、写一封表达你想听听另一半说什么的回应信。三、和另一半分享你的情书和回应信。,Why we write l
12、ove letter,The different ways men and women hide feelings are discussed along with the importance of sharing feelings.,The Love Letter Technique is recommended for expressing negative feelings to your partner, as a way of finding greater love and forgiveness.,After writing your letter you may no lon
13、ger feel a need to talk. Instead you could become inspired to do something loving for your partner. Whether you share the feelings in your letter or you just write a letter to feel better, writing down your feelings is an important tool.,Talk about love letter,STEP I: writing A LOVE LETTER (写情书),Her
14、e are some guidelines for writing a basic Love Letter:,I. Address the letter to your partner. Pretend that he or she is listening to you with love and understanding.2. Start with anger, then sadness, then fear, then regret, and then love. Include all five sections in each letter.3. Write a few sente
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