高等院校研究生英语系列教材 综合教程(上).ppt

高等院校研究生英语系列教材,综合教程（上）INTEGRATED COURSE,2,Unit 4,Love and Marriage,Content,Starting out Reading Focus Reading More Practical Translation Focused Writing Final Project,Task 1Work in groups to list the possible relationships a normal human being will encounter in his lifetime.Also list the words and activities related to a certain relationship.,Starting outTask 1,e.g.Friendship,work,peer,love,parental,marriageWords for reference:Friendship:care,association,esteem,empathy,friendliness,attachment,affinity,bond,harmony,intimacy,affection;going to movies,heart-to-heart talk,playing sports together,Starting outTask 1,Work:co-worker,managers,team leaders,business talk,business lunch,team work,promotionLove:affection,attraction,romantic dating,candlelit dinner,hug,kiss,courtshipParental:unconditional love,deep care,Starting outTask 1,Task 2Watch a part of the American movie Sleepless in Seattle and discuss with your partner how the son feels about his father and the father about the son as well his late wife.,Starting outTask 2,Click the picture,Sons feeling for his fatherWorried,care,love,Fathers feeling for his sonLove,affectionFathers feeling for his late wifeLove,memory,Starting outTask 2,Task 3 Read the following paragraph and discuss with your partner what makes a happy marriage and why.The Beatles sang,“All you need is love.”Your friends might tell you,“Good communication is all you really need.”Your parents advise you,“The key is to marry someone with the same values.”What do you think is essential for a happy marriage?,Starting outTask 3,Love and Loving Relationships,Reading Focus,Reading Focus,Listen to a talk on The mathematical Marriage Predictor and answer the following questions.1)What did James Murray try to do?To explore the rocky road of romance.2)What was the first step James Murray take in his research?Videotaped hundreds of volunteer couples in discussion.3)What did James Murray do with the videotapes?Break down behavioral responses to these high-pressure discussions into recognizable groups.,Background Information,Script,4)What prediction did James Murray try to make with his findings?Whether the marriage would last.5)How correct was James Murrays prediction?Ninety-four percent.6)What is the indicator of a divorce according to the Mathematical Marriage Predictor?“Roll your eyes and say goodbyes.”,Background Information,Reading Focus Global Understanding,Love is essential for human survival.,What is love?,What brings people together?,Discuss in groups to identify the missing information.,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,The family is the earliest and most important source of love and emotional support.,Children deprived of love have been known to develop a variety of problems.,Research shows the quality of care infants received affects how they later get along with friends.,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,Love for oneself,or self-love,is also essential for our social and emotional development.,Social scientists describe self-love as important for self-esteem.,People who dont like themselves may not be able to return love but may constantly seek love relationships to bolster their own poor self-images.,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,elusive concept,People give a variety of answers when asked what love is.,Love has many dimensions.,It can be romantic,exciting,obsessive,and irrational,platonic,calming,altruistic,and sensible.,It varies in degree and intensity and across social contexts.,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,a willingness to please and accommodate the other.,an acceptance of the other persons faults and shortcomings.,as much concern about the loved ones welfare as ones own.,Love,especially longterm love,has nothing in common with the images of love or frenzied sex that we get from Hollywood,television,and romance novels.,“Real”love is closer to what one author called“stirring-the-oatmeal love”.,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,What brings people together?And is there a person out there that one is meant for?,Empirical studies show that cultural norms and values,not fate,bring people together.,Criticism and approval teach us what is acceptable romantic behavior and with whom.,Lust and desire are different from loveespecially romantic love.,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,One should not conclude that desire always culminates in physical intimacy or that desire is the same as romantic love.,Healthy love relationships,whether physical or not(such as love for family members),reflect a balance of caring,intimacy,and commitment.,Task 2,Choose the sentence that best expresses the meaning of the sentence from the text.(P105),Key:2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10,B,A,B,C,D,B,C,D,C,B,Reading Focus Detailed Information,Critical Thinking,Reading Focus,Step One Read the following sentences from the text and decide whether you agree with the author.Work in groups to provide examples to support your opinions.,1.Loveas both an emotion and a behavior is essential for human survival.2.Love for oneself,or self-love,is also essential for our social and emotional development.3.Love is an elusive concept.4.Love has many dimensions.,Reading FocusCritical Thinking,Step TwoDiscuss in groups the following questions.1.What do you think is the ideal relationship?2.What is essential for a long-term relationship?3.People say its difficult to maintain long-term relationship nowadays.Do you agree and why?,Reading FocusCritical Thinking,Babies and children deprived of love have known to develop a wide variety of problemsfor example,depression,headaches,physiological impairments,and neurotic and psychosomatic difficultiesthat sometimes last a lifetime.(Para.1),Reading Focus Language Point,deprive of:剥夺；使丧失e.g.He was deprived of his rights to education.他被剥夺了受教育的权利。impairment:the fact that a part of your body is unable to do something fully（身体机能的）受损 e.g.a hearing impairment 听力受损 neurotic:extremely worried about something in an unreasonable way 极端焦虑的；神经质的 psychosomatic:of or relating to a physical disorder or illness that is caused or seems to be influenced by emotional factors（疾病）由身心失调引起的,Among other things,people who like themselves are more open to criticism and less demanding of others.(Para.3),Reading Focus Language Point,among other things:furthermore除了别的以外，此外e.g.1)Shes very keen on sport:among other things,she plays tennis twice a week.2)At the meeting they discussed,among other things,recent events in Japan.Open:vulnerable,acceptive,easydemanding:exacting,requiring more than generally expected(指人)对他人要求高的,苛求的 e.g.Children are so demanding:they need constant attention.,3.Love has many dimensions.(Para.5)爱有多个层面。dimension:a level,prospect,an aspect of a situation that influences the way that you think about the situation 方面；部分 e.g.1)There is a dimension to the problem that we have not discussed.2)There is a political dimension to the accusations.,Reading Focus Language Point,4.Although love may involve passionate yearning,respect is a more important quality.(Para.6),Reading Focus Language Point,yearning:n.a strong desire or feeling of wanting something 向往，思慕，渴望 e.g.1)He had a deep yearning to return to his home town.2)I suppose its because I live in a crowded city that I have this yearning for open spaces.,5.These misconceptions often lead to unrealistic expectations,stereotypes,and disillusionment.(Para.7),Reading Focus Language Point,misconceptions:misunderstandings,incorrect conceptions 误解Stereotypes:conventional conceptions 老套，思维定势Disillusions:freeing from misbelieves or illusions,disenchantments 幻觉破灭,6.In fact,“real”love is closer to what one author called“stirring the oatmeal love”Johnson,1985).(Para.7),Reading Focus Language Point,Johnson uses“stirring the-oatmeal love搅燕麦粥之爱”to refer to real love,which is represented by a willingness to share ordinary human life,to do the simple,unromantic tasks,such as routine chores like cooking,living with a housing budget,putting out the garbage,babysitting,caring the babies.,7.“theres one person out there that one is meant for.(Para.9),Reading Focus Language Point,There is one in the world for whose sake you were born.世上有一个人是你为之而生的。,8.Even during the preteen years,romantic experiences are cultured in the sense that societal and group practices and expectations shape romantic experience.(Para.10)preteen:of,relating to,characteristic of,or designed for preteens 13岁以下儿童的 e.g.preteen fashions 青春期前儿童时装 culture：cultivatesocietal:relating to a particular society,or the way society is organized 社会的 e.g.societal changes 社会变革 societal forces 社会势力 Shape:condition,form,Reading Focus Language Point,9.Regan and Berscheid(1999)differentiate between lust,desire,and romantic love.(Para.11)differentiate:to see or show a difference between things=distinguish 识别；看出的差别e.g.1)Neil is color-blind and cannot differentiate between red and green.2)Its sometimes hard to differentiate one sample from another.,Reading Focus Language Point,10.Once desire diminishes,disappointed lovers may wonder where the“spark”in their relationship has gone and may reminisce regretfully(and longingly)about“the good old days”.(Para.11),Reading Focus Language Point,diminish:to become less,or to make something become less（使）变小；（使）减少 e.g.Suddenly the wind diminished and the seas grew calm again.突然风变小了，大海又平静了下来。reminisce:v.to recall or talk about past experiences,events,etc.追忆往事，缅怀往事；回忆，话旧 reminiscence(n.)e.g.We spent the evening reminiscing about our university days.我们整晚都在追忆我们的大学时光。,Exercise:Choose the appropriate word to fill in the blank,change the form when necessary.,Reading Focus Language Point,diminish decrease reduce1)Our water supply _ as a result of the drought.2)There has been a steady _ in population in this city.3)The helmet law should _ injuries in motorcycle accidents.,has diminished,decrease,reduce,Key 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9-10-,Task 1Choose the answer that is closest in meaning to the underlined word or phrase in the sentence.(P107),A,A,C,B,B,C,D,C,Reading Focus Vocabulary in Action,A,C,Task 2,1.The two countries have always _ close relations.2.When were together,all he talks about is business.I wish he were more _.3.The museum is closed while _ repairs are being carried out.4.She had packed two cases with clothes,towels and other _.5.His coaching has added another _ to my game.,Read the words and their explanations in the box.Choose a word to complete each of the sentences below and explain its meaning.Change the form if necessary.(P107),maintained(a),romantic(a),Reading Focus Vocabulary in Action,maintain,intimate,essential,defy,dimension,romantic,essential(a),essentials(c),dimension(c),6.Were not on _ terms with our neighbours.7.He _ that the money was donated for international purposes.8.The beauty of the scene _ description.9.He _ his wishes with a slight nod of his head.10.Computers design tools that work in three _.,intimate(a),maintained(c),defies(b),intimated(d),Reading Focus Vocabulary in Action,dimensions(a),11.This was the first time that I dared to _ my mother.12.The castle is set in one of Englands most _ landscapes.13.I did not realize the _ of the problem.14.Her income was barely enough to _ one child,let alone three.15.He surprised me with his _ knowledge of Kierkegaard and Schopenhauer.,defy(a),romantic(b),dimensions(b),Reading Focus Vocabulary in Action,maintain(d),intimate(c),Reading Focus Vocabulary in Action,Task 3,Fill in each of the blanks with an appropriate word from the box.Change the form if necessary.2)4)6)8)10),prerequisite,date,Respect,important,whomever,candidates,highly,essential,suitable,sufficient,The Last Chapter,Reading More,Reading More,Global Understanding,Detailed Information,Critical Thinking,Language Points,Vocabulary in Action,1,2,3,4,5,Fighting youth,Loving couple,Change happening,Loving because of forgetting,Reading MoreGlobal Understanding,Text Exploration,Complete the following extra with information from the text.(P113),Key:,1)everything,2)throw,3)lost,6)financial,7)alcohol,8)taking,4)marriage,5)fear,9)where,10)explained,Reading Focus Detailed Information,11)anxiety,12)cry,13)approached,14)shared,15)structure,Critical Thinking,Reading More,Step OneWork together with your partner to answer the following questions based on the text youve just read.1.What caused the problems in the marriage of the old couple when they were young?2.What was the cause for the changes that occurred later when they got old?3.If you were a marriage consultant,what suggestions would you give to couples who have the same problems as the old couple had in the passage?,Reading MoreCritical Thinking,Step TwoDiscuss in groups the following questions.1.Why do we need marriage today?Is it loneliness?Is it teamwork?Share with your classmates your ideas about why people get married.2.“You do not marry someone you can live with;you marry the person you cannot live without.”Do you agree with the saying?Give your reasons.,Reading MoreCritical Thinking,Their loving reassurances were sweet,touchingand surprising.(Para.3),Reading More Language Point,reassurance:something that is said or done which makes someone feel calmer and less worried or frightened about a problem 再承诺e.g.1)Parents are looking for reassurance about their childrens safety.2)The Administration gave repeated reassurances that there was absolutely no danger to the public.,2.He was a Republican;she an ardent Democrat.(Para.5),Reading More Language Point,ardent:showing strong positive feelings about an activity and determination to succeed at it热心的e.g.1)Hes been one of the most ardent supporters of the administrations policy.2)an ardent baseball fan,3.The everyday frustrations of life at the office came to roost at home.(Para.5),Reading More Language Point,come to roost:If bad or wrong things that someone has done in the past have come home to roost,or if their chickens have come home to roost,they are now experiencing the unpleasant effects of these actions.自食苦果;得到惩罚;遭到报应 e.g.Politicians can fool some people some of the time,but in the end,the chickens will come home to roost.政客们有时能够愚弄一些人，但最终他们都会自食恶果。每天工作上的不如意也会到回家来吵。,4.There was a hope that they would change once they retired,and the furious winds did calm somewhat,but what remained steeled itself into bright,hard bitterness.(Para.6),Reading More Language Point,furious:done with a lot of energy,effort,or anger 猛烈的，强烈的，激烈的 e.g.a furious storm 猛烈的暴风雨 a furious argument 激烈的争论steel yourself:be prepared for,to prepare yourself to do something that you know will be unpleasant or upsetting 准备应付（不愉快的事）e.g.As she waited,she steeled herself for disappointment.但是，余怒却结成了强烈的怨恨。,5.Why not try to make the best of things?Wed provide the cake,the balloons,the toasts,and theyd abide by one rule:no fighting.(Para.7)make the best of sth.:do whatever one can to make a bad situation into a better one.善处逆境Why not take the occasion as an opportunity to improve their hostile position?,Reading More Language Point,abide by:to accept and obey a decision,rule,agreement etc,even though you may not agree with ite.g.You have to abide by th